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A passionate, adventurous, and kind-hearted person with a love for exploring new places, trying new things, and connecting with people on a deeper level.
Miten kuvailisit omaa ihannekumppaniasi?
Someone who is kind, intelligent, has a great sense of humor, is open to new experiences, values communication and honesty, is supportive of my goals, and shares similar interests, allowing us to have meaningful conversations and adventures together while also respecting each other's individuality.
Jos tietäisit maailmanlopun koittavan 30 päivässä, mitä tekisit?
Spending quality time with loved ones, expressing gratitude, pursuing meaningful activities, making amends with those I've wronged, and embracing experiences that bring me joy, rather than material possessions
Jos sinulla olisi 10 miljoonaa dollaria säästössä, mitä tekisit sillä?
Well, if I am going to die in 10 hours, then I have no reason to bother wasting $10 million . I would rather donate it to several charities, where it would help others.
Kuinka usein ja keneltä sinä kysyt neuvoa?
Depends what I'm asking for help with. When it comes to normal every day things, I really dont mind. Yeah, I like to do things myself, I find that I get better results if I do things myself, but I have absolutely no problem asking for help. When it comes to big things, important, or sensitive things, then that's different. I go to the people I trust. I'm extremely lucky to have such amazing friends and family that support me when I need it. So going to those people makes asking help easier. Asking for help is absolutely nothing to be ashamed about. Just remember that you have to return the favour and help others when they ask for it.
Mitä ominaisuutta arvostat eniten oman sukupuolesi ihmisissä?
Empathy and understanding
Mitä ominaisuutta arvostat eniten vastakkaisessa sukupuolessa?
Affectionate and sensitivity
Mikä on elämässäsi merkittävä viimeaikojen tapahtuma ja miten se on vaikuttanut sinuun?
When I was 11 years old, in 2009, my parents split up. I went to a Catholic grade school and NOBODY’S parents were separated or divorced back then. As I remember it, my Dad was suddenly gone, without explanation and my Mom was flinging things across the room and screaming at my Dad although he wasn’t there. It was a situation where I knew to keep my mouth shut and try to get through it. I didn’t dare ask my Mom where my Dad was, and I never did ask for any details.
As a result, I became very depressed, before depression was even a thing. I missed a lot of school due to “stomach aches”. Kids bullied me for 3 years, although at that time, it was called “teasing” and no one did anything about it. You just had to get through it. One nun, who was my 6th grade teacher and a very angry, repressed person, flung me into a wall because the class bullies were throwing spitballs at me yet I was the one punished. In 8th grade, my great-grandmother passed away at the age of 110 (really). The funeral was out of town and I was out of school for 3 days. My 8th grade science teacher wanted to know what my big excuse was for being absent THAT time. I told him.
I couldn’t wait to get out of grade school and on to high school, and I did better there, but was extremely sensitive to the normal criticizing that almost all kids experience. When I was in 10th grade, my Mom suddenly said to me “I need you to go to divorce court and be my witness”. In those days, there wasn’t any such thing as no-fault divorce, at least in my state. You had to blame somebody to get your divorce. This was the moment I learned that my parents weren’t already divorced. I never knew, nor did I want to ask Mom who would unleash more fury about my Dad. I just lived in confusion.
As a result of all this, I grew up to be an extremely insecure person, never feeling like I was a part of anything, never feeling I mattered to anyone.
Amazingly, I’ve been in a very happy marriage for the last 28 years, although it took me 2 tries to get it right, and I thank God every day for finding this man. First husband didn’t find me worthy and left me for a woman we had both worked with who was “more fun”. At the time, I felt I had been abandoned again, and was in a tailspin for several years, but time has taught me that I was lucky in the long-run.
Over the years, I’ve been able to figure out a few things about what went wrong with my parents. Mom was ALWAYS right. It was her way or the highway. Dad was a mild mannered guy who wasn’t the best at helping around the house. Mom could find something wrong with anything. She wouldn’t discuss anything, she would say “You’ll do that over my dead body”, or “Don’t you dare” or some other threat. And looking back, that’s how she was with everybody.
Dad did show back up in my life when I was around the age of 14. He took me to Father-Daughter Dinner Dance (what a thrill for me!). As soon as I got my driver’s license, I drove 45 minutes every week to see him, and I had a good relationship with him till the day he passed away in 2015.
Everyone has their story, happy or sad. This is mine. But I do often wonder what I would be like if things had been different.
Viimeisimmät lukemasi kirjat?
Silent Patient by Alex Michaelides
Onko sinulla paljon ystäviä?
Yeah
Mitä ominaisuuksia eniten inhoat omassa sukupuolessasi?
Not strict enough
Mitä ominaisuuksia eniten inhoat vastakkaisen sukupuolen ihmisissä?
Greed
Mitä haluaisit muuttaa itsessäsi?
Personalities
Mitkä ovat heikkoutesi?
Impatient
Mitkä ovat vahvuutesi?
Caring
Kuinka ystäväsi kuvailevat sinua?
Supporting
Kuinka tuttavuutesi kuvailevat sinua?
Controlling
Mitkä ovat suosikkipelejäsi?
Scrabble
Minkälaisesta musiikista pidät?
Any kind
Mitkä ovat suosikkielokuviasi?
Rambo
Mikä on suosikkiaktiviteettisi tai -harrastuksesi?
Travelling
Mikä on unelmatyösi?
CEO of tech Company
Kerro meille unelmiesi kumppanista.
Supportive and financially fit
Missä haluat asua?
In the Bahamas
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