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Etunimi: Danny

Ikä: 39

Paikkakunta: Intia, Goa Velha

Horoskooppi: Neitsyt

Paino: 75kiloa

Pituus: 175senttimetriä

Silmien väri: Tummat

Hiusten väri: Musta

Vartalotyyppi: Lihaksikas

Tupakoinnin määrä: Ei koskaan

Juomatottumukset: Ei koskaan

Minun aktiviteetti tyyppini: Ei ole väliä

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Sivilisääty: Sinkku

Haluaa lapsia: Päättämättä

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Tuloni: Hyvät tulot

Kiinteistössäni: Kerrostaloasunto, Auto, Moottoripyörä, Business

Missä asut?: Erillinen kerrostalo asunto

Koulutus: Postdoctoral-tutkinto

Ammattititteli: Opettaja/professori

Uskonto: Henkinen tiedostaminen, ei uskonto

Parini

Ikä: 18 - 44

Maa: Mikä tahansa

Silmien väri: Mikä tahansa

Hiusten väri: Mikä tahansa

Onko OK, että heillä on lapsia?: Kyllä

Vartalotyyppi: Mikä tahansa

Tupakoi: Ei koskaan

Juo: Välillä (sosiaalisesti)

Kumppanin syntyperä: Mikä tahansa

Harrastukset ja kiinnostuksen kohteet

Mielipiteeni puutarhanhoidosta?: Ei ois apu pahitteeksi
Mielipiteeni ruokashoppailusta: Pidän siitä erittäin paljon
Mielipiteeni muusta shoppailusta: En välitä
Suhtautumiseni kokkaukseen: Jotakuinkin pidän kokkaamisesta
Ulkona käymiseni määrä: Pari kertaa viikossa
Suhtautumiseni ulkona syömiseen: Nautin siitä
Mitä televisioon tulee: Katson urheilua
Rahasta puhuttaessa: Ostan vain sen mitä tarvitsen, säästän loput
Kuvaile itseäsi bileissä: Se vähän riippuu... Onko minut kutsuttu?
Mitä kotiini tulee: Ei määritelty
Haluaisin asua: Mökki maaseudulla
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Minkälaisista televisio-ohjelmista pidät kaikkein eniten?: Urheilu, Uutiset, Luonto, Peliohjelmat, Filmit, Opetus, Dokumentit, Tämänhetkiset aiheet, Komedia, Toiminta/seikkailu
Käytän mieluiten vapaa-aikani: Perheen parissa, Harjoittaa harrastusta, Katsoa televisiota tai elokuvaa, Menemällä kävelylle, Ystävien kanssa, Internetissä surffaillen
Aktiviteetit joista pidän: Pyöräily, Tanssi, Lenkkeily, Kävely, Painonnosto
Urhelulajit joiden katsomisesta/harrastamisesta nautin: Kriketti, Jalkapallo, Olympialaiset, Jalkapallo
Viihteen muodot joista nautin: Baarit/pubit, Konsertit, Tanssiravintolat, Illallisjuhlat, Elokuvat, Country-musiikki, Pop-musiikki, Lukeminen, Netissä surffailu, Tv:n asiaohjelmat/uutiset, Tv-viihde
Muut harrastukset tai kiinnostukset: Tietokoneet, Matkustelu, Jooga

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Miten kuvailisit itseäsi?: Hello! I'm someone who finds balance in life through a variety of passions. I'm deeply into yoga and spirituality, which help me stay centered and grounded. The gym is my sanctuary for physical wellness, and I also cherish the serenity of nature, often spending time outdoors to recharge.

I'm at an age where I want to meet my person and start a life and family together. I appreciate a woman who isn't afraid to put the work and live with me forever. I am one woman man.Falling in love with someone from another culture or country has an extra dose of excitement because not only are you discovering another human, you’re discovering a whole new way of life. This Excites me a lot.

Kindness is at the core of who I am, and I believe in spreading positivity wherever I go. Travelling is a major part of my life; I love exploring new places, experiencing different cultures, and embracing the adventure that comes with it. I'm also a tech enthusiast, always curious about the latest innovations and how they can enhance our lives.

One of my favorite ways to unwind is sitting by the beach, watching the sunset and appreciating the peaceful moments. If you’re someone who values a balanced, tranquil life and enjoys meaningful conversations, we might just be a perfect match.

Please do not worry about your English language and I am learning Russian language so its easy to communicate with each other. so do not hesitate to send me the message.

Show don't tell. I think Action speak louder than words, so If you want to ask anything about me feel free to drop me a message.

You can't judge a book by its cover." ...how someone can judge another person without even talking to them or knowing them is beyond me!!! So feel free to add me and talk with me.

Be generous for the sake of generosity without expecting it in return. Love others without expecting it in return. Be the best that you can be because it is the ultimate gratification .Good people in this world are very hard to come by. So Iam a people person. I love people! and I love to help people. I can write lots of nice things about myself , but there is no need for that, I think seeing is believing.Thank you for stopping by.
Miten kuvailisit omaa ihannekumppaniasi?: I'd glad to chat with an interesting person here. I would like to find a reliable, honest and interesting woman with good sense of humor who wants to have a family in the future. For me a good relationship is all about spending a lot of time together, to understand each other well, to travel together in different places and to have some common interests (like hobbies and the way of spending time).

Choosing a life partner is the most important decision you will ever make – far more crucial than choosing a job, house or group of friends. All the decisions you make will be together, you’ll have to sleep next to them every night and you’ll still have to love them when you’re both old and wrinkly.So Appreciate your family, love your partner, learn that family is the most important thing in the world and never compare material to non-material things.

You may fall in love with the beauty of someone, but remember that finally you have to live with the character not the beauty. Beauty attracts hearts but character attracts soul. When nails grow long, we cut nails not fingers. Similarly when misunderstanding grows up, cut your ego, not your relationship. Relationships are not exams to pass or fail and not a competition to win or lose, but it’s a feeling in which you care for someone more than yourself. “Never ignore someone who cares for you because someday you will realize you have lost a diamond while you were busy collecting stones.

Every relationship requires quality communication, so you can understand why your partner or their family do certain things, and vice versa.
Falling in love with someone from another culture or country has an extra dose of excitement because not only are you discovering another human, you’re discovering a whole new way of life. This Excites me a lot.
Jos tietäisit maailmanlopun koittavan 30 päivässä, mitä tekisit?: Would help all the unfortunate,sick and needy people.
Jos sinulla olisi 10 miljoonaa dollaria säästössä, mitä tekisit sillä?: Would feed starving people and animals.
Mitä ominaisuutta arvostat eniten vastakkaisessa sukupuolessa?: Choosing a life partner is the most important decision you will ever make – far more crucial than choosing a job, house or group of friends. All the decisions you make will be together, you’ll have to sleep next to them every night and you’ll still have to love them when you’re both old and wrinkly.The important qualities that Iam looking for in my life partner is
A good sense of humour, honesty, reliability, no-game playing, A strong friendship, Romance, Sexual Attraction, A sense of fun, shared values, we both should get along with each others family members, being hardworking, We make time for each other, We have to like each other, Being able to forgive and forget, being honest, an Interest in each other life, we trust each other and support each other.
Mikä on tärkein neuvo jonka annat lapsillesi?: I have no children, yet.
Mikä on tuottanut kaikkein suurimman vaikutuksen (shokin) sinulle?: MARRIED OR SINGLE, YOU HAVE TO READ THIS AND CHANGE YOUR LIFE FOREVER!… IT WILL LEAVE YOU SHOCKED.

THIS IS A STORY ABOUT ONE HUSBAND AND WIFE WHICH I READ IT AND IT GIVES ME BIGGEST IMPRESSION

If you started reading, you are already blessed. No matter how old are you and regardless of your relationship status, read this story. It is real story that reaches the real value of every relationship and in the same time will learn you how to save your money and your heart.

“ One day a man got home from work and he run to his wife. he grab her hand, told her to sit and then he told her that he want divorce.

At first sign she has no reaction. She stood on the same place for couple of minutes and then continued with her household tasks. That night both did not talk. He heard she cried and she asked what she did wrong. She did not did anything wrong, but it was all up to husband. He was in love with other woman, named Joan. He did not see his wife as before, He did not love her, so he knew that the divorce is the right thing.

He signed all the documents even husband felt sorry for her. She was in marriage with Him more than 10 years. She spent her best years of life with him, she raised their son and now he had to leave her. But that is life. She signed the documents too and threw them away. She told me that she will divorce from me, but she has only one condition. She wanted the next month to spend together with their son. Their son had difficult exam period then and the most important for him was their support. She knew that their son found out they both are getting divorced then he will not pass the exams. They had to act like nothing happened. Husband agreed.
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Every day husband had to take her in his arms to the front door. They had no physical contact, just this task. Their son was happy.

As time passed Husband noticed that his wife was not the same. She lost weight, she got wrinkles and she looked without energy. She was still the same woman he felt in love years ago, she was the woman that gave him a child and make home from their house. That month he saw her every day and he totally forgot about Joan. We functioned like normal happy family and he remembered all those happy days with her. Those moments when he carried her in his arms to the door, He remembered on their wedding days. He felt her fragrance, her body smell, her skin. But day by day he also noticed how my wife became skinner and easier to carry.

He decided not to divorce. These days were better than all moments spent with Joan. He was so confused. Then he told Joan he want to split up with her and he want to save his marriage. Joan was angry, she shouted, slapped me and shut the door. But he did not felt bad. he knew that his wife is the love of his life.

he bought flowers and he was happy as the first day he kissed my wife. he took flower card and wrote: “I will carry you every morning until death parts us” and he run at home.

When he entered the door he found his wife laying on the floor, dead. He was heart-broken, shocked, with no words.

Then He found out that his wife got cancer. She was fighting the most severe fight in her life and He was so busy with my mistress to notice the changes. He left her alone. And at the end He told her that I do not love her and I want to divorce her. Instead of support he destroyed her.

She was aware about her situation and the last thing she wished was their son to remember as happy family. Her wish was him to carry her on arms every morning same as on the day of their marriage. She sworn to me that she will be with me until the death apart us and she stood faithful to it. His wife learnt him that materialist things are not important. Beside all those money, cars, good job, business trips, house and mistress he forgot on the most important thing in his life- his family.

He know he was the worst father and husband and he do not want you to feel sorry. he has gone through very hard moments, not because he lost his wife, but because he did not show her that he love her and she means everything to him. Now it is too late… “

Appreciate your family, love your partner, learn that family is the most important thing in the world and never compare material to non-material things.

I hope you like this story whomsoever is reading it and get to know what is Important in life.
Viimeisimmät lukemasi kirjat?: In my last book I have read these lines

It was one seemingly ordinary day when I decided to QUIT… All of a sudden I made a decision to quit my job, my relationship and finally my spirituality. I just wanted to quit my life.
But before that, I went to the wood to have one last talk with God.
I started “God, can you give me one good reason not to quit?”
His answer really surprised me: “Look around”, He said. “Do you see the fern and the bamboo?”
I replied: “Yes. When I planted the fern and the bamboo seeds, I took very good care of them. I gave them light. I gave them water. The fern quickly grew from the earth.
Its brilliant green covered the floor. Yet nothing came from the bamboo seed. But I did not quit on the bamboo. In the second year the Fern grew more vibrant and plentiful.
But still, nothing came from the bamboo seed. But I did not quit on the bamboo.
He said: “In year three there was still nothing from the bamboo seed. But I would not quit. In year four, again, there was nothing from the bamboo seed. I would not quit.”
“Then in the fifth year a tiny sprout emerged from the earth.
Compared to the fern it was seemingly small and insignificant…But just 6 months later the bamboo rose to over 100 feet tall.
It had spent the five years growing roots. Those roots made it strong and gave it what it needed to survive. I would not give any of my creations a challenge it could not handle.”
After that, He asked me: “Did you know, my child, that all this time you have been struggling, you have actually been growing roots. I would not quit on the bamboo. I will never quit on you.”
“Don’t compare yourself to others.” He added. ”The bamboo had a different Purpose than the fern. Yet they both make the forest beautiful.” God said to me: “Your time will come”
“You will rise high”.
I asked: “How high should I rise?”
“How high will the bamboo rise?” He also asked.
I was confused: “As high as it can?”
”Yes.” He said, “Give Me glory by rising as high as you can.”
After this conversation I left the forest and I wrote this amazing story. I really hope that these words can help you to see that God will never give up on you.
You should Never, Never, Never, Give up.
Don’t tell the Lord how big the problem is, tell the problem how great the Lord is!
Ketä ihailet?: I Don't chase, I attract, what belongs to me will simply find me.

I like to meet in person! Let’s grab an iced coffee and talk about how athletic the people on “Cheer” are. I love to go to gym everyday and I love yoga and meditation.

Thank you universe and thank you god for abundance and prosperity in my life. Thank you from bottom of my heart.
Mitä haluaisit muuttaa itsessäsi?: Do you think you are going No Where in Life?

STOP!

Take a deep breathe

THINK!

New York is threehours ahead of California, but that does not make California slow

Cameroon is six hours ahead of New York but it does not make New York slow.

Someone graduated from college at 22 but waited five years before securing a job.

Someone became a CEO at 25 but died at 50.

Someone became a CEO at 50 but lived to 90 years.

Someone is still single,

While another is married with children

Absolutely, everyone in this world works based on their own time zone.

People around you might seem to be ahead of you.

That’s total fine. Some are behind you.

Everyone is running their own race in their own time zone.

Don’t envy or mock them.

They are in their own time zone and you are in yours.

Life is about waiting for the right moment to react.

So RELAX.

You’re not late

You’re not early

You’re very much on time, and in your time zone.

Everyone have a different exams paper meaning different questions.

Everyone have a different assignment meaning different purpose in life.

So focus on your own exampaper, your assignment and purpose.

Don’t copy and paste or steal answer else you will fail big time.

Your dreams and visions are all valid.Just take your time and do the best you can.

Be like the hummingbird.Even when mighty lions and tigers underestimated him,hecontinued to do what he could,where hewas ,just as he was, with the little he had.

You're ok just the way you are.The little work you are doing today might seem insignificant but Ibet someday you will see the big picture.

You're Not late ! You're Not early.
Kuinka tuttavuutesi kuvailevat sinua?: Finding a person to date is quite easy in this day and age, but finding someone to connect with and have a fulfilling relationship with is on a whole other level. Stable long-term relationships that can lead to marriage take two like-minded people.

They require couples to be on the same page not just about the way they feel, but also about the things they want from the relationship, the way they communicate, perceive each other, invest in each other, view the world, and the things they believe in.

Relationships are some of the hardest things to master and maintain because they require certain kinds of skills we don’t learn in school. I’m talking about skills that aren’t just related to the relationship (communication, trust, loyalty, etc.), but also skills that everyone should develop whether they’re in a relationship or not.

Most people, unfortunately, don’t know they lack these skills until they get into a relationship with someone they love because that’s when those skills (or the lack of them) reveal themselves in the forms of disagreements, impatience, stubbornness, selfishness, jealousy, arguments, and all kinds of shortcomings.

These shortcomings come out because people get used to being with their partner, take their partner for granted (at least a bit), and unknowingly project their unhappiness onto him or her and test their partner’s patience. Not all people treat their partner poorly, of course, but many do because they never learned to value people and control their impulses.

They didn’t need to because they got away with certain behaviors in the past without paying the price for it. Because they had a get out of jail free card, they, as a result, neglected the importance of self-growth and carried their childhood issues, traumas, fears, anger issues, trust issues, abandonment issues, and poor communication styles into their relationships and through self-negligence destroyed their relationships before they even started.

The problem with people in relationships isn’t that they have flaws. It’s that they don’t have the desire to look for flaws, identify them, work on them, and compromise when they need to. They’d rather let the other person do the work while they carry on inattentively and mind their own business.

If they took the time to invest in themselves, they could sometimes (not always) prevent their partner from becoming resentful and leaving them. They could continue to stay in love and grow both individually and as romantic partners.

But enough about that. You’re here because you’re asking yourself, “Will I ever find love again?” You want to know if what you had before is what you can have again and be like other successful couples. The quick answer to your query is YES. You will find love again. And the good thing about it is that it will most likely be even more fulfilling, healthy, durable, and long-lasting.

This is because romantic failures have taught you that relationships need work and that if someone (whether it’s you or your partner) stops prioritizing the relationship, things can quickly take a turn for the worse. They can lead to cheating, neglect, depression, suffocation, and a loss of feelings.
There’s no denying the fact that numerous smart, good-looking, successful, ambitious people are struggling to find love. Many are doing extremely well at work or home, have many friends, enjoy their lives, and live healthy lifestyles, but they still can’t find a worthwhile person to commit to and stay with long-term.

Why is that?

Oftentimes people aren’t ready for love. They’re broken-hearted, insecure, or desperate for a connection, so they want love for all the wrong reasons. Instead of wanting someone who will complete them, they want a person who will make them.

And that’s wrong because no person should teach them how to live and be their everything. Romantic partners are a big part of our lives, that’s for certain. But they can’t be the sole purpose we get up for in the morning.

Not unless they’re incapable of taking care of themselves and need our help. But that’s a topic for another time.

The point I’m trying to make is that most people reading this article wonder if they’ll ever find love again because they’re dealing with romantic rejection. They’re hurt, sad, miserable, and are struggling to accept the breakup and love themselves. That’s why instead of working on themselves, they want to find love again and be happy with the help of another person.

A person going through a breakup or dealing with something difficult shouldn’t be obsessively thinking about finding love again. He or she should be taking the long road to self-acceptance and healing, which is to improve self-esteem and other areas of life that are lacking.

This includes friendships, family bonds, work, passion, independence, physical/emotional health, and much more. These are just a few things people in pain, asking themselves, “Will I ever find love again” should be focusing on. You see, love is like a drug. The moment anxious people find it, many if not most of them will stop working on themselves.

They’ll feel too validated to look within and change some of the things that need changing.

I’m not saying they should do nothing but mull over their misery, but if they got broken up with, they should use the time after the breakup to become emotionally stronger and wiser. If they can focus on themselves rather than other people, they can outgrow their old selves and not have to wonder whether they’ll find love again.

They can find something much better – which is self-love.

Those who keep looking for love when they’re struggling to find internal peace and happiness eventually find love. But because they’re obsessed with feeling the kind of love they felt in the past, they go through the rebound stages and fail to stay connected.

They fail at keeping their love alive because they aren’t emotionally ready for new emotional investments.

Look, I get it, being alone when your friends are settling down, getting married, and having kids can feel like you’re the only one who failed to find happiness. But you need to understand that you’re not in competition with your friends. You don’t need to have things society wants you to have and reach your family’s expectations.

All you need is to know that finding love takes time and that it’s okay even if it takes decades. Lots of people divorce at various ages and points in life. This is normal, and quite honestly, healthy for many. Those who break up have some things to learn and improve so they can find love again.

If you can’t find love and are afraid you’ll never find it again, try not to think poorly of yourself. Don’t think that something’s wrong with you and that you’re not worthy of love and commitment. Also, don’t think about giving up on love. You probably feel like the people you date always disappoint you, but there’s a reason for that.

We need to identify that reason (or reasons) so you can have a better chance of finding real love. Please read until the end so you can discover the cause of your lack of romantic progression.

One of the most plausible reasons you’re struggling to find love again is that you’re still processing the end of your previous relationship and aren’t emotionally ready for love yet. You’re still thinking about the person who broke your heart and fantasizing about being with that person.

If that’s what you’re doing, you’re incapable of being in a relationship even if Mr. or Mrs. right takes interest in you. As long as you’re hurting over the loss of a relationship and need your ex to validate you, it’s impossible for you to connect with anyone else. Your heart still belongs to your ex, so it’s not going to open up to someone else no matter how hard you try.

All you’ll do by forcing it is realize your ex was the better person for you and get hurt and nostalgic in the process. So before you even try to fall in love with someone else, make sure to get your ex out of your system. Sign up for therapy, exercise, spend time with friends and family, and distract yourself. These things will help you process the breakup at the fastest rate possible and allow you to feel something for the people you associate with.

Another reason why you might be having a hard time finding love is that you’re not interacting with lots of people. You might be living quite an asocial life and have very few romantic opportunities. To find love, you don’t have to be the most social person on the planet, but you do have to be willing to get out of your comfort zone and live your life.

Do that by accepting people’s invitations, going out with friends more, attending various shows, concerts, events, and joining local communities. There’s a lot you can do to increase the number of people you meet and interact with.

The third reason you might be struggling to keep men or women interested is that your self-esteem and confidence are low. You probably know how important these traits are because they make certain impressions on people. They tell people how you think of yourself and how hard they’d have to invest in you to make the relationship work.

If you can improve confidence and self-esteem, you should attract more people into your life.

To boost them, work on your physical appearance, social skills, fears, and take risks in life. Try to improve the way you see yourself and your understanding of who you are as a person.

We also need to point out that you might need to work on yourself a bit more. If you lack self-awareness and are saying things people find offensive, for example, you need to look into that. Find out if the way you act or don’t act is healthy and generally accepted so that you can improve yourself if needed.

The fifth reason why you’re struggling to find love might be that you’re impatient and want love right away. If that’s the issue, you need to learn that love isn’t something you can get just because you want it badly. It’s something that happens when two people like and respect each other to the point where they want to grow and progress in life together.

You may want to connect a bit too much because you’re impatient or afraid you’re running out of time. Figure out if that’s the case so you can slow down a bit.

The final point is that you might have a difficult time settling down with people. Instead of giving people a fair chance, you get bored or disappointed and start looking for the next best thing. That would imply that you’re not sure about what you want from your relationships and that you want to find the best person rather than become the best with him or her.

Lower your standards a little bit
Finding a person identical to you in all aspects of life is never going to happen because there is no other you in this world. You won’t find him or her no matter where you look because he or she exists only in your imagination.

Even if you find someone with the same interests and similar personalities, the two of you could still have gender differences, hormonal differences, cultural differences, behavioral differences, differences in upbringing, and differences of opinion.

Something will always be different, so there’s no point in looking for a mirror image of you. It’s good to respect yourself and set the bar high, but don’t go looking high up in heaven. People have flaws and differences and sometimes we need to accept them just as they need to accept ours. That’s how we can give room for growth to occur and the relationship a chance to develop.

A person who likes you will probably take up some of your hobbies and interest, copy your vocabulary, and mimic some of your behaviors. That’s because love unites couples, makes their lifestyles somewhat similar, and enables them to live joyfully.

So instead of wondering if you’ll ever find a person like you or one of your exes, know that you don’t need a person like your ex to be happy. Your ex is your ex (a person the relationship failed with), so you just need an open-minded person with similar values to you.

In other words, you need a mature person who has set his or her priorities straight and wants what you want – a serious commitment.

I know I make this sound easy, but it’s anything but. People are different and often resistant to change. They value their opinions a lot because their opinions identify them and tell them what they should accept, reject, and fight for. But despite that, you should look for someone who’s already done the work on himself or herself and is ready for a serious relationship.

A man or woman like that likely won’t spend 5 days a week at the bar getting wasted. He or she will work (or go to school), be family-oriented, understand the importance of physical and emotional health, and have control over his or her negative thoughts and emotions.

The kind of love you’re looking for, therefore, is built on virtues, acceptance, and understanding. You want someone who will stick with you through thick and thin and not leave when stress, pressure, anxiety, differences of opinion, and other unpleasant thoughts and feelings pile up.

If you ask me, that kind of person is worth waiting for. I’ve dated a fair share of people, and I can tell you I’d rather be single than stay with a person who makes me feel unloved and can’t grow with me. To me, the ability to grow is probably the most important thing I look for and respect in a person. Everything else (common hobbies and interests, communication differences, understanding each other better, and even goals) we can work on as we go.

So if I managed to convince you a little, don’t look for a perfect person. If you look for a perfect person, you’ll move from one person to the next without truly getting to know people. To give people a chance, you have to give them about half a year of time to show you what they’re made of.

Half a year should be enough for you to see if your values are aligned and if you can grow together.

Of course, you don’t have to stay with people if there’s no chemistry and attraction, but do see if they’ve done any work on themselves, if they’re capable of handling constructive criticism, and if they’re willing to work with you on problems when they emerge.

Of course, this also applies to you. Relationships go both ways, so if your partner (or someone you like) is dedicated to you and ready to adapt, don’t get scared and think less of him or her. You should be willing to improve and grow simultaneously because it’s the mature thing to do.

The sad reality though, is that some people are better equipped for long-term relationships than others. Some develop open-mindedness and empathy because they spend more time reflecting on their behaviors, whereas others completely ignore the need to do that and fail.

They grow only when they need to because they’re motivated by pain and demotivated by joy. In other words, they lack self-awareness and the understanding that self-development is a constant lifelong process.

It’s only a matter of time before you find love again
If you found love before, you can be certain that you’ll find love again. It may not happen when you want it to, but that’s probably for the best because you want to keep your expectations low. You want to be detached from the outcome as that will make you as attractive you can be.

So try not to worry about whether you’ll find love again after a breakup. If you’re open to love and don’t live in a bunker completely cut off from society, finding love is inevitable. You’ll most likely find it when you’re not thinking about it anymore and don’t need anyone but yourself to be happy.

That’s when you’ll start wondering if worrying about finding love again was even worth it.

Mark my words that you’ll find love again. Just make sure to do the work on yourself so you’re ready for it when it finds you.